Can the ‘older’ dudes be so gullible, or just plain dumb (when it comes to the matters of the heart – NOOOOO, I hope NOT!!)… I.e, the ladies, we’re taught to be polite and friendly. So how come so many men from age of 19 to 69 simply assume and get their unrealistic fantasies rationalized, when we are just being that – simply polite – we smile, acknowledge their presence, and hope they go back to their usual routines…
I had a personal experience, with an older [elderly man who would ‘take from me emotionally’ – he could me my grandfather – gross!!!] , because we had a conversation once or twice – he admitted that he had “no problem” with my age… I, on the other hand could smite him… what a superfluous thing to regard? Others do not ‘exist’ simply for you pass-time!
Hello? I’m a third of your age! I’m baffled, mystified and angry at this sick phenomenon. So here’s my ‘State of the Union’ Address:
“My fellow – Eligibles. The by-gones are trying to live through you. Do not let them. They had their chance at happiness, but they blew it. This is now our time; we look towards the future not the past.”
Why ddi the old men, to whom I just was polite….see me as a potential ‘love interest’ [I only was polite], and to ‘ease’ the tension, I said: we have a huge age-difference (hoping he’d call back his horses)… Instead, he made it a point that the ‘age difference’ does not mean much to him much as it does to me…[now – I just find him plain gross for the failure of understanding…]